anarchy

there are different characteristics one looks for. instinctively. intrinsically. it's not all physical nor all mental. it's has to be a combination of both in varying balance. symbolically this can be known as chemistry. one of the identifying markers is the different kinds of laughter. unrelated to the humor that triggers the actual event, the response is a key indicator to attraction. the first is a subtle giggle usually followed by a self concious trigger that too much emotion has been displayed. a simple mouth cover, a subtle turn away. this is usually followed closely by a normal laugh pattern. usually what one would display when a friend told a humorous story or joke. this stays constant through out any relationship. another variation is the full body laugh. used only for close acquaintances, this signifies openness and a self confidence that comes with having a wider range of feeling for those in context. the counter to this is that with the increased range of happiness and self worth, the opposite is also true. a variable rate of sadness can sometimes lead to a larger well of depression because of the happiness caused on the other range of the spectrum. if one looks out for these cues, the breadth of the relationship can open up and each entity can increase pleasure of both the company each one keeps while allowing for a better read of relations and contextual situations.